I'm in my bed. It seems I'm here most of the time these days, laying in between my rust orange sheets pretending like the world isn't there. This is my haven. This is my place of safety. Of quiet and rest. And I'm taking full advantage of it right now.

I can hear the rain softly falling outside my window, and the sounds of the piano playing on youtube. I can hear my kids yelling at each other laughing in the other room. I can hear Ty Pennington yelling in the other room. The rain is picking up now. As much as I wish it were snow, I love the sound of a heavy rain washing away the dirt and ugliness of this world.

I've been sick for a while now. Battling with fatigue and nausea. I've not had a fever but I've been pretty miserable. I went to the doctor this morning and they did a urinalysis and some blood work. The first thought was pregnancy, but as I've had that problem fixed, they're not worried about it. My blood pressure was low, and the doc is checking my thyroid and some other things. She gave me a shot of Phenergen for the nausea (perhaps my favorite drug) and I got a very, very good nap this afternoon. But there is no real reason for any of this that we can see yet. Basically no one has any idea why I feel the way I feel. No one, but perhaps, me.

I didn't bring it up today. I was going to, really, I was. But I just didn't. But I'm beginning to believe all of this is just depression. Anxiety. In my head. I don't know. None of my symptoms make any sense. You know, unless I was pregnant. Which I'm NOT. So... I don't know. It scares me a bit. I don't feel weepy. I'm not lying here in my bed crying my eyes out all the time. But I have been having a bit of a hard time lately. I'm irritated and agitated. I don't want to deal with people. I don't want to deal with my children. I want to sleep. I want to stay right here in my safe, cozy little bed and sleep. Where it's warm and no harm can come to me. I know. I need to get off my lazy butt and do something. I know.

Hey, my house is clean. That's something.

I have an apt on the 11th of Feb for my yearly girly check and if all of the blood work comes back normal and we still don't know what's going on by then I'll talk to her about it. I'll have to, as having a girl check will probably freak me the freak out anyhow. Bleh. The rain is picking up more. I knew you'd want to know.

I've not been blogging. I've not been going to church. I've not been hanging out with my friends. I've not been doing much of anything. A lot of it really is because I'm ill. Because when I move (especially yesterday) I vomit. And because my kids have been sick. And Eric has been working a lot and struggling with pain still. But all of these things, really, are nothing but excuses. I know that. And I hate it. Part of me wants to say 'you know what, I have every right to lay in this bed and do whatever I need to do right now to survive'. But there is a big part of me that says I need to suck it up and get up and move on with my life. I need to just get better. Even though I know it doesn't work that way. There has to be a balance. I know that. I know there has to be some kind of balance. I can't lay in my bed (as comfy and perfect as it is) all day every day, but there is no point in me going all psycho Suzie Homemaker, either. There needs to be some balance. I need to learn to forgive myself. Give myself some room to heal. In my head, I know it's okay to be where I am. I know it's okay for me to be in my bed where I feel safe. The guilt just eats at me and tells me I'm lazy and a bad mother and a bad wife, bad Christian. I know it's Satan kicking me while I'm down, I'm just not sure how to make him stop.

Okay, I just needed to blog. I needed to say that even though I'm laid up in bed, I'm still here. I'm still alive. I'm just in a state of... hibernation? I don't know. There are a lot of things going on in my head, but I'm not ready to go there right now. Thanks for just listening, though.
4 Responses
  1. Suzanne Says:

    I'M listening! And Courtney I even emailed you! You know, I was dealing with some anxiety this past week and my bed seemed like the perfect place to hide. But I couldn't because I had to get up and go to work! (whine, whine.)

    Sometimes, when we're sick, it's okay to give in and wallow, it's such a low point and it's okay to lie low.

    But eventually, you gotta get up and not let Satan keep you down.

    I want you to know there are 2 people (very dear to my heart) whom I pray for every morning, consistently, I would like to add you to that small, but very important list. I don't like to say I'll pray for people if I really won't, so I hope this is okay. You can email whenever you want too!

    Just know, I AM LISTENING and so is God.

  2. Melanie Says:

    *hug* court we're praying. love you girlie

  3. Samantha Says:

    i think taking a break can be good sometimes. try not to let it get you down, i think we need a few days to blank out and regroup. you are a great mom and wife and so i will be praying that you feel better and can get off your feet to do what you really desire but are just lacking the current energy and feeling good enough. love you *hug*

  4. noahpoco Says:

    You're doing what you need to do to get thru. Everyone that surrounds you is on ur side and understands that you need space sometimes. that by no means makes u a bad anything instead makes you a better everything. Even the irritating hard headed ones are beside you and will walk with you til the end :) Love you babe we will get through this together, I'm not leaving your side.

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